I asked my husband what words can excite a man? Without hesitation, he answered: “The borscht is ready! Would you like a cold beer? Can we buy new tires? At first I laughed, appreciating my husband's sense of humor, and then I thought about it, because there is some truth in every joke. Somehow it happened ... What to hide, intimate relationships after 10 years of marriage, to put it mildly, are not the same. You take care of him, you try to share his interests, you endlessly sacrifice something for him, and he begins to look at you with completely different eyes, in which, alas, all desire has long dried up ...
Elena K.
Well, okay, let's not go into the details of this difficult case. I hope everything is not as neglected for you as it was for one of my clients! I would like to chat about what words can excite a man. And is it even possible to arouse desire in him with the help of a word.
Scientists have long established the fact that a man is visited by thoughts related to sex at least 8 times a day. And in order for these very sexual fantasies to visit him, neither pictures of naked women, nor exciting sounds or smells are needed. He starts to think about it involuntarily. And how to make him think not just about sex, but about sex with you? And it is even better not only to think, but also to act ...
Most women underestimate the power of verbal action. The Internet is teeming with information on how to excite a man in sign language. Seduction experts recommend returning former passion with new erotic lingerie, role-playing games, aphrodisiacs and love potions. By the way, read - and in your head a lot about this will become clear.
In general, what a woman does not go to to seduce a man! Of course, you can also jump half-naked in front of him performing dirty dances, but I still advise you to consider a simpler and no less virginal way.
What should I say
The list of phrases and words that excite a man has been known for a long time. Many women often resort to his help. And although all guys are individual and require a unique approach of their kind, there are still universal verbal “recipes-activators”:
His name
Better than any stimulant, a man can be aroused by his own name, pronounced with an aspiration, in a languid voice. And remember, there should not be any "bunnies, cats and babies" in the bed!
intimate compliments
Hints of great length and sexual strength of the guy are 100%. Laudatory words and phrases addressed to the intimate dignity of a partner can excite anyone:
- "so powerful";
- "just huge"
- "big and bouncy".
sexual fantasies
Stories of an erotic nature will not leave any man indifferent. If you are embarrassed to tell him your fantasies, cheat and tell him that you dreamed all this. Believe me, it doesn’t matter to him where these frivolities came from in your head. The main thing is that they appeared at all.
How to say
It is very important not only what you will say to him to turn him on, but also how you say it. This is where many women make mistakes, thereby postponing the moment of intimacy. The list of words that can turn him on has been drawn up, now you have to pronounce them in a special way.
The exact answer to the question: "How to excite your partner with words?" - No. Which phrases are effective and efficient, and which ones cause negativity and rejection, you can only find out by experimenting. There is only one universal advice - speak with feeling.
Voice timbre
Start with your tone. Intonation during a conversation changes significantly and often depends on your mood. Exciting a man with words, or rather during the pronunciation of certain phrases, the main thing is that the speech does not sound feigned. Remember - no pathos, falsehood and artificiality! Better you get lost than start minting a prepared speech, as if speaking in front of a thousandth audience with a report.
Voice volume
The loudness of the pronunciation of words is no less important. The main thing is to evaluate the relevance. Loud phrases are also acceptable, unless of course you are sure that no one will hear your “loud conversation”. A barely audible languid whisper is also possible if your partner is not deaf. It is important that it sounds organic.
Dual meaning
Women, of course, are more likely than men to search for a hidden meaning, but some phrases, if you say them at the right time, may please a guy. For example, tell him that his hands are comparable to those of a musician. And believe me, the result will not keep you waiting - at today's concert he will "play" a breathtaking melody. And in the main role of the instrument - your naked body ...
By the way, there is one phrase that works flawlessly: "Let's get down to business!". Apparently, this is a kind of male stereotype, since even an unfamiliar man will definitely react to these words.
Without the art of ambiguity, there is no true eroticism. The stronger the ambiguity, the more intense the excitement.
Milan Kundera
Personal approach
Not everyone can like outright vulgarity. Of course, there are connoisseurs of a strong word uttered by a heated woman. There are also men who are excited by an exquisite speech turnover. In order not to make a mistake, you just need to listen to his everyday speech. Never forget individuality.
Unfortunately, the analysis of the effectiveness of various exciting phrases has never been carried out by anyone. And, of course, there are no statistical data, too delicate questions. There are no identical men, exactly the same as there are no universal expressions that excite them. Therefore, I will give some examples of the most effective and common phrases, and you will decide for yourself whether they are suitable in relation to your partner.
"I want you". I consider this phrase the undisputed leader in comparison with all other phrases. After all, what can excite more than the sincere desire of a woman.
"Take me". Someone will say that this phrase is too frank, but experienced ladies are sure that these words always work flawlessly.
"I want to feel you." No clarifications are needed, he will definitely understand everything himself.
“To caress me” are chic words that can not only excite, but also push to action.
"Beloved, I am yours." With this phrase, you will emphasize not only your desire, but also your feelings, trust and emotional closeness.
"I can't wait for tonight." If a couple of hours before the end of the working day you call and say this phrase, a passionate night will be provided for you.
You can blow him away by telling him you didn't wear underwear. It is this phrase that has a lightning effect. In any case, in order to choose the right phrase for your boyfriend, you must be guided by his interests and secret desires.
To evaluate the effectiveness of the proposed phrases, you may have to use more than one phrase. I think he will like your game, because after all, most men really like experiments.
What to avoid
If you have known a man for a long time and are well versed in his desires and preferences, then it will not be difficult for you to excite him. But how can words arouse desire in him if your relationship is only gaining momentum in its development, or rather, what should never be done?
Avoid laughter and jokes during lovemaking. Humor is not conducive to excitement! And by joking about his sexual dignity, you risk pushing him away from you once and for all.
It's easy to spoil sex with idle chatter. If you just confessed to him that you want him, and after a couple of minutes, already in bed, you voice that he did not wash his plate after dinner, the evening can be considered ruined.
The key to good sex is sincere desire and love for your partner. To excite a man with words is half the battle, the main thing is to keep passion for many years. Say and do everything possible and necessary for the sake of your partner and never be selfish in bed.
Many women, in order to arouse desire in a beloved man at a distance, resort to erotic SMS.
This method is suitable if a woman is far from her lover and wants to remind him of herself.
The proposed material tells how to excite a man with a telephone message, the rules of SMS correspondence, and provides examples of exciting texts.
SMS with erotic content can greatly excite a loved one, and this method of flirting is also suitable for a new acquaintance in order to intrigue a potential partner.
When writing messages, you must follow the following rules:
- Avoid spelling mistakes. Even the most subtle game will lose intrigue if the guy runs into endless mistakes.
- Don't post too many messages. It has been established that if more than five SMS are sent per day, the partner loses interest in the interlocutor due to excessive obsession.
- Be concise and short. Too long texts are difficult to understand and do not contribute to inciting passion. The optimal size is similar to the messages of the interlocutor.
- Do not respond to the message of a loved one instantly. A pause of up to thirty minutes will add intrigue and stir up interest.
- Pursue a certain goal of the conversation, consistently approaching it with separate messages. This is due to the desire to make jealous, cause intrigue, achieve a meeting, etc.
- Transfer the conversation to the topic of the interlocutor himself.
- Don't get carried away with emoticons.
- Do not rush the development of events, so as not to scare the guy away with excessive frankness.
The nature and subject of messages is determined by the status of the interlocutors.
More details about this in the table:
Note! Along with excessively aggressive sexuality, excessive enslavement is no less harmful, men like women who are not ashamed to appeal to eroticism.
How to excite a man with words?
The phrase about love with ears is true not only for women. Words are the most important component of the human mind.
The brain, processing what has been said, illustrates phrases, creating a colorful image. How bright the message will turn out depends on the correct choice of words.
The partner will be excited by such phrases:
- I want your body.
- How do you feel about dirty sex?
- Feel my scent.
- The look in your eyes literally undresses me.
- I imagine the gentle trembling of your body.
- Your breath drives me crazy.
- I deify your body, every line.
- You have no idea how I get turned on just thinking about you.
It is important for a man to hear words about his desirability and irrepressible sexuality.
Do not neglect exciting phrases in order to achieve harmony in relationships.
Examples of exciting texts
Constancy - does not apply to qualities that contribute to the aggravation of passion. For any man, the beloved woman must constantly change so as not to bore her beloved.
A partner will never think about another if the beloved surprises with originality and originality.
This rule also applies to SMS written by phone.
When writing a message, you should:
- Recall the first hugs and kisses in order to evoke past memories and the desire to repeat them.
- To say how dear he is, eyes that have not forgotten the taste of the beloved's lips, the smell of hair.
- Offer to perform an erotic dance for your beloved.
- Describe how you will melt in his arms.
- Talk about the desire to see a real man nearby.
- Write what you will do with your lover at nightfall.
When compiling playful SMS, they will add originality and piquancy Interesting Facts from the lives of great people associated with sex, historical events or erotic rites of various nationalities.
Sexuality is inextricably linked with diversity and does not tolerate monotony.
An exciting photo will complement the sexy phrases, depicting a view under a skirt or a deep neckline against the backdrop of a street landscape.
Beautiful SMS in verse and prose
It is not necessary to resort to poetry, but if you have such abilities, it does not hurt to rhyme a few lines.
A few examples of short and funny phrases in prose and poetry:
- Clothes off, and on this night, peace and fear are in your hands.
- The smell of passion lured, swirled, there was not enough strength to resist.
- Withered lips whisper a name: beloved, desired, the only one.
- The body trembles beautifully in ecstasy from the touch of your hands, the tongue is looking for lips, and the groan cannot be restrained.
- I kiss, I hug, I press to my heart.
- I wish passionately, I burn with love, I want to touch you.
- When I take off my clothes, I excite your body.
- I want to fall asleep in your arms, wishing good night, and wake up with the words - good morning.
Phrases written in your own words are more frank than beautiful, refined, but other people's words. Stay sincere and direct, avoiding jarring phrases.
Do not be shy to show initiative and imagination. Many women in this give the prerogative to men, maintaining inaccessibility and coldness.
But do not think that men are not turned on by sexy women. The situation is absolutely opposite, excessive modesty and coldness will not add passion and will repel a partner.
What can't be written?
Some, when they decide to resort to seduction through SMS for the first time, make common mistakes:
- They overload messages with vulgar phrases, mistakenly believing that they will turn on a man. Some part of the stronger sex is subject to such methods, but the majority needs intrigue and understatement, which are much more exciting.
- Do not resort to hackneyed phrases, keep originality.
- Do not talk about complex and long-term prospects.
- Don't exaggerate your own worth.
- Don't promise things you can't deliver.
- Do not use comparisons with other men, the beloved must be confident in his own uniqueness.
- Don't talk about your shortcomings.
- Find time for correspondence, but you should not overload your partner with SMS.
Even the longest relationship can excite a correctly spoken and written word.
And in the case of flirting with an unfamiliar man, an original and intriguing SMS contributes to a speedy rapprochement.
Remain unique, a dream girl, the only and desired one, and a properly constructed conversation with SMS messages will help with this.
Aristocratism is the same vulgarity, only more fastidious and artificial.
"William Gaslitt"
Avoid vulgarity, this is the mold of the mind. We must fight it relentlessly or it will poison everything we do.
The constant denunciation of vulgarity eventually also becomes vulgarity.
"Anton Chekhov"
Vulgarity is the glue that holds people together. Whoever has little of it, he disappears.
"Arthur Schopenhauer"
Beauty is brought up in wisdom, and pettiness and vanity breed in vulgarity.
"Valentin Petrovich Rychkov"
One vulgarity replaces another, evil is defeated only by even greater evil, and there is no reason to believe that it will ever turn out differently.
"Dmitry Bykov"
Dripping vulgarities is a great evil. You are completely unaware of this.
Johann Wolfgang Goethe
Mediocrity always considers itself extraordinary, and therefore it proclaims and affirms its right to vulgarity, or affirms vulgarity as a right.
"Terry Goodkind"
Vulgarity is when with pathos about the obvious.
Vulgarity, profanation of the lofty, especially sticks to what concerns sex - a sphere where the spiritual and the physiological are side by side, so that the spiritual is too vulnerable to the unspiritual.
"Alexander Kruglov"
A good hostess even does housework at night. Male…
Girls who think they change guys like gloves, relax, you just go hand in hand!
A normal woman is always happy to rely on a normal man ...
After the confession of Elena Berkova, the priest lit a cigarette.
I am not against vulgarity, but they do not insert any joke related to vulgarity. They think that showing or hinting at genitals is already considered a joke. Apparently, someone has genitals instead of a head!
The girl, before she allows herself to be fucked, thoroughly rapes the guy's brain.
You can catch such a bouquet from this bride ...
Often men prefer an ugly woman to a beautiful one, thinking that a beautiful woman has more men than the ugly one. But since almost all men think so, the ugly one has more men than the beautiful one. And then men do not know what to think at all!
A bad head does not give rest to cowards!
"Nikolai Fomenko"
Talent turns vulgarity into art, and mediocrity turns art into vulgarity.
The appearance of vulgarity is often useful in life: it weakens too high-tuned strings, sobers self-confident or self-forgetful feelings, reminding them of its close relationship with them.
"Ivan Sergeevich Turgenev"
There are vulgar insects: Bed bugs; there are vulgar plants: Geranium and Ficuses; there are vulgar animals: Pigs; there are vulgar people: the Octobrists.
After two glasses of wine in a fish restaurant, she suddenly realized that she wanted to eat more than just fish…
Something constantly arises between the friendship of a man and a woman ...
Why is it so nice to fuck without a rubber band? Because you risk twice and according to the full program: to give life and become infected with death.
Girls grow up when they start wearing bras. Boys grow up when they start filming them.
Conception, membership fee to maternity capital.
Vulgarity, like logic, cannot be denied without falling into it. Both can only be ignored.
"Joseph Levin"
For women, a vibrator is a thing in itself.
The most minimal wear of work clothes for strippers.
Are you jealous? Leave these nonsense! It's gone, I can't stand it.
There is not a single man in the world who is able to be satisfied for a long time only with the soul of a woman.
"George Sand"
Verbal methods of arousal are underestimated by modern girls. There is a lot of information on the net about how a woman can beautifully turn her hips, how to erotically wink at a man in a cafe, what aphrodisiacs to use to prolong the night of love ...
We decided to consider the usual way of interaction for everyone - a conversation. How to excite a guy with words and is it possible at all? What phrases to use to make him want you?
“Darling, the borscht is ready,” is it suitable or not? And won't his ears droop from sweet flattery?.. Let's try to get to the bottom of the truth.
How to turn a man on with words?
Speak his name
Any person is pleased to hear his own name. And for a man to hear it from the lips of his beloved after an orgasm is a special kind of pleasure.
But remember, no diminutives. He is not "Dimusik", not "Olezhka", not "Glebushka", not "Kid" and not "Bunny"! And you are not his mother or kindergarten teacher.
Such "uti-ways" only kill sexual desire, because a man feels like a little boy. Can babies passionately make love all night long? ..
Tell me about an erotic fantasy
No man will remain indifferent to the sexual desires and dreams of his partner. Maybe you have been thinking about a sex toy, role playing or even a threesome for a long time?
Whether you implement these ideas or not, the fascinating detailed description"Pictures" will lead his imagination and not only;) ...
Reminisce about shared sexual moments
Your first dorm sex under the covers when there were three other roommates in the room? An intimate relationship in a restroom of a restaurant a few months ago? Mutual masturbation on the last row of the cinema?
Remind the man of some bright moment. Add how turned on you were then, and he was such a passionate sex monster that even your knees gave way.
The partner will feel desired, sexy and excited. And then - it's up to the small!
Give an intimate compliment
Hints about what a beautiful / long / skillful member a man has will excite anyone. Compliment your partner's intimate dignity by saying, "You have the hardest penis I've ever seen" or "Your penis always gives me cosmic orgasms..."
You can hint at a blowjob: "I dream of licking it all over ...". Do it not at home, but somewhere in the store or in the car to stretch the anticipation of pleasure a little.
How to speak to seduce a guy with words?
Voice timbre
Not only words are very important, but also HOW you will pronounce them. Agree, a compliment about the shape of the penis from a shy thirteen-year-old girl does not turn on, but only touches.
Intonation
The main thing - without pathos and falsehood. If you know “effective” phrases, you don’t need to pronounce them like in a textbook or at the defense of a diploma. Add something of yourself, be sincere with your partner. Better a little, but good!
Volume
Screaming is probably not worth it - your partner is not deaf, and other people's ears should not hear it. A languid whisper is quite suitable for creating an intimate atmosphere.
Double meaning
Men are less likely to search for hidden meaning than women, but some phrases will be quite appropriate. For example, tell your loved one that their hands look like the hands of a musician. The result will not keep you waiting - at night he will arrange a grand concert, where your naked body will be the solo instrument!
“Without subtle hints, true eroticism is impossible,” said Milan Kundera. And we agree with him.
Intriguing phrases for men
What exciting phrases for a loved one will work for sure? We have prepared a list of favorites!
Of course, there are no statistical data on the reliability of the result. Someone will say: “Too frankly”, someone will get excited, someone will grimacing from vulgarity. Remember that everyone has their own preferences, look at the reaction of the man and adjust what you say.
We will present you some cool "blanks":
- "I want you". The leader phrase, after which sex happens very often. Men like proactive girls who are ready to take the first step!
- "Take me now." Too frank? For modest couples - perhaps. But if you really want passionate sex right now on this table - why not give it a try?
- "I dream to feel you inside..." Pictures of gentle penetration, your languid moans and half-closed eyes with pleasure are being drawn in my head. Well, who doesn't get excited?
- "To caress me" - words that not only excite, but also encourage action!
- “Beloved, do with me whatever you want ... I am yours.” It's time to try the most cherished poses and fantasies. A good night is guaranteed!
- “I’m without panties,” say this in a restaurant, and expect a lightning-fast effect. Favorite sexy woman who attracts in lingerie, but here - without it. Accessibility increases, and with it the desire!
What NOT to do if you want to turn a man on with words
- No jokes during sex. Humor excites only if it is BEFORE sex. Long before! When you are in bed together, naked and horny, and you say something from the series: "So small" with a mockery - you will only spoil the whole atmosphere.
- To be shy. With your head down and lightly twisting a lock of hair around your finger, you cannot make a truly sexy compliment ... You are an adult woman who has the right to express her desires even in a vulgar form. There's nothing to be embarrassed about herelike a schoolgirl. Times when there was no sex» long forgotten! Bolder!
- Demand. Sexual intercourse is a mutual pleasure. And if you are trying to excite your partner with the phrases: “Kiss my neck .. Get a massage ... And cunnilingus .. And this position ...» - he'll get tired. Take the initiative yourself!
- Empty chatter. Well, you forgot to close the refrigerator, or an ugly girlfriend marries an ex, or discounts in a store across the street ... A man does not care about these things when he makes you cunnilingus. If you ruin a romantic encounter with mundane topics, forget passion.
- Get distracted by the phone. You received another notification, and you, throwing the man’s hands off yourself, say: “Wait, please - an important message”? .. He will not appreciate it, the excitement will disappear, and you will fall asleep on opposite sides of the sofa.
No need to grab the phone while reading the notification and even more so to talk on the phone. Especially at peak times.
- Watch TV. Many couples start by "watching a movie" and end up having sex. And it's wonderful! Just stop trying to watch it all the same, and while he makes frictions, look at the screen with one eye.
The secret of successful sex
It's not just about erotic words, the "correct" excitement of a loved one and translucent lace underwear.
If you quarrel, are jealous, suspect each other or are secretly offended - no elegant wording of intimate compliments, blowjob techniques and poses from the last page of the Kama Sutra will save sexual intercourse.
Be frank with each other, realize piquant desires, talk about what pleases and worries you - and then the passion will last for years!
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Hi all!
In addition to vulgar words spoken to a guy in his own words, there is another option - these are sexual SMS with a special meaning. You can evoke emotions for sensual relationships right now. And with what words to do it - the choice is yours.
vulgar words to a guy
The vulgar words presented to the guy will excite his mind and will not let him calm down in the near future. Play with it, but in moderation.
- How about practical training in the Kama Sutra?)
- An actress woke up in me - I want to be a goldfish in bed)
- I invite you to nature in the forest and to find pleasure there to heaven!
- You are my ideal, but only when we are under the covers)
- It would be nice to give you my best and do it sexually)
- Only your call - and there will be one more vice!
- I got caught in the rain and got my feet wet ... in order to avoid a cold, you should sweat a lot!)
- I dreamed that I was a bee worker and sat on a pestle ... was the dream prophetic?)
- Will you introduce me to your hero today?
- I love experiments so much, especially at night and paired with a man!
- I want bliss all night long until the morning... do you think it's time?
- Pounce on your baby like a cat on a mouse!
- I want to whisper in your ear: “I am yours without a fight and all zones are available!”
- I do not want a fairy tale, but I want your intimate caress!
- I need wings so much right now ... I want to fly to your bed!)
My whole body is trembling, but not from the cold, but from the desire for you!
- I want to be a beloved cat and have you stroke my fur!
- The night is given for that, to sin ... I hope you also think?
- How nice it is to remember the creaking of the bed ... maybe we can repeat the melody?
- Your mosquito would not like to fly under my flashlight today?
If you want the guy to think about you all night - send, or even better, say vulgar words in your own words in a languid voice. From such words, your boyfriend will have erotic fantasies at night in which you play the main role.
- I want to cheer you up and not only)
- Do you mind measuring my moisture level below the waist line?)
- I know that you are very accommodating for one thing ... you have my body at your disposal)
- Yesterday, the neighbors did not let me sleep with their party ... and let's arrange a night without sleep for them!
- In my house, the elevator began to break down often ... how about you get stuck in it together?)
- Someone's voice came to my subconscious and told me to be yours today)
- The best remedy for a headache is intimate calluses ... check?)
- My mink howls at your wolf... when will he come and disappear in its depths?
- I want to wake up all your reflexes tonight!
- Let the embrace of darkness be sweeter for us than Turkish persimmon!
- Explore my lowlands and hills tonight at sunset!
The wide bed is already blushing from my determined intimate mood for the night)
SOS! I feel weak for you, but I can’t undress myself ... I need your help!
I want you to stroke my hair, and then where they are not now)
- I dream of hearing how you breathe rapidly over my body and do this business!
- My vicious desires make me sink into the ground in shame, but I need this delight!
- Let's reveal all our secrets about cravings!
- Forget about dinner, but rather think about your club and a pleasant demise)
- Satisfy your desires with me ... I'm ready to give you an entrance ticket!
To tell a guy something in your own words, you just need to choose ready-made words with a vulgar meaning according to your mood. At the same time, the selected phrases should not be repeated exactly, supplement with your thoughts, because it will be more natural and sincere. The presented words will help with the direction of thoughts and diversify your vocabulary.
I wish you an explosive and sincere relationship!